Ladies, I want to inspire you not give up and that is never too late to find love.
Even for myself, I got married for the first time at 51 a couple of months ago and struggled so much in dating and love. I could tell you a million stories of how I attracted men who did not want a commitment with me, abusive men, and men that were weak.
And, It isn’t about luck or karma or being in the right place at the right time. When you think this way, you feel like a victim and it can make you feel worse.
What I found to be empowering and the most promising in finding love, it doing the inner work that enabled me to feel worthy of love, ready to accept a man as he is and be accepted unconditionally by him.
I had accepted I might be alone for the rest of my life and I was ok with me. I also at the same time was committed to finding love and immersed myself in a spiritual journey and an opportunity to work on hurtful patterns and expand my capacity to forgive. I became more peaceful and feeling really good about myself, which was very attractive to a good and quality man.
Also, I believed that every past relationship was a learning experience and prepared me for this beautiful union with my husband today.
So, don’t be so hard on yourself and your past relationships. Learn from these experiences, heal and forgive.
And get back out there and start dating again.
You may say that you don’t have time, or there are no good men out there, but this is smokescreen that you are really afraid. It is important that you don’t allow that fear to run you. You can get out there again and yes, you might get hurt, but you have to take risk. It is worth it. From where I was in the past and cried so many nights when I was alone and to now having a man in my life that is loving, supportive, and lights up my day – I say all the heartache was worth where I am today.
So, what are you going to do? Will you make a choice to do something different? Will you start a spiritual journey to have more peace, feel good about you, and maybe you just might end up in the arms of a loving man that loves you unconditionally and you love him? Isn’t that all we really need? Love!
If you find that you would like to have a blanket of support with your spiritual journey, I am here for you! Just hit reply and let me know and we can setup a time to chat.