Have you ever found yourself wondering if you should date a man that is separated or divorced?

Now, there are no hard and fast rules to this.   I would say for the most part, I would not date a man that is separated.   He is still married.   He could go back with his wife.  He is still healing from the separation from his wife and family.  And he could be on an emotional roller coaster for a while and is still mourning his marriage.  He might want to sow his oats and not be committed for a while.  Or he may think he is ready, but he really is not.  Be careful.   You could be the rebound girl because he is just looking  for companionship and not for a committed relationship.   Now, I am not saying that sometimes it does work out to date a man that is separated, but for the most part, I would say no.   Don’t just go by what he is saying, look at his actions.   Are you a priority in his life?

The same is for divorced men, I would recommend not to date divorced men until a year after the divorced is finalized.   Again, there are always exception to the rules.  So, go with your gut, and trust your feelings, observe his actions vs his words,  and make sure you communicate with him   .

BTW- Get me live!   I will be doing a live chat in my private facebook group Thursday, 9/14/16  at 12:00 pm PST to answer any questions about dating separated and divorced men

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All the best,